When I posted the photos online, I had no idea how far the pictures would spread.
But the maternity photos I published with CBC Parents in April went viral.
The response was incredible. The story was picked up by Baby Center, Bustle, Babble, Bloom, Metro Morning, Metro UK, and The Mighty; it caught on beyond North America in Huffpo UK, Daily Mail, The Independent, The Pool, Huffpo France, and EditionF.
What meant the most was the photos being lifted up by others with disabilities, like the incomparably fabulous Mama Cax:
And seeing it inspire people’s own art forms:
I didn’t expect disabled women to write to me saying they wished they’d done the same.
I didn’t expect to be thanked for sharing them.
I didn’t expect the reach at all (and over 1,000 new Instagram followers in a week, whaaa?!).
One amputee living in Mumbai wrote that while she never experienced pregnancy, seeing my photos helped her imagine what it would be like. She was grateful.
Representation really is so incredibly powerful.
I started to joke that it should be no surprise — a woman in her underwear is a proven go-to to get attention. But while sex sells, disabled bodies are kept far from the ubiquitous naked ones and are generally expected to be non-sexual and presented as non-desirable.
I didn’t expect to be thanked for showing disability as sexy.
While I didn’t know how many people with disabilities the photos would reach, they were my target audience. The numbers of non-disabled people engaging with the photos was a surprise.
But I realized: we’re all hungry for diversity in the images we see. And we’re all impacted by the homogeneity of bodies in the media.
Most people feel their bodies are different, inadequate in some way, and seeing my drastic body difference made even non-disabled people feel included, normalized, and seen.
It’s interesting that most people who saw the photos, all my new Instagram followers, don’t know that I’m a musician (i.e. the thing I have been trying to spread around the world!).
I don’t mind.
The chance to love my body a little harder, and for others to love themselves a little harder too, is worth its weight in gold.